One person said that perhaps I come across as "hard" or fiercely independent and that truly isn't what a guy wants, because if I am so independent then do I need him.
Which got me thinking even more. "Hard" is such a negative word. And one that I don't relish resembling. I think that I am independent and I definitely don't think I come across as harsh. But just like we have body dysmorphia perhaps I have a skewed image of myself, in every way.
It just makes me wonder why I have no problem attracting guys for meaningless sex but can't seem to find someone who wants a relationship. And a lot of the time I don't think I even care. But today wasn't one of those days. Today I care. Today I wonder is it true, that men don't want strong independent women?
Or is it me?
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