What do I want in a relationship??

Someone actually asked me this the other day?  What do I want? It's a valid question, and coming from someone that I know cares about me so I am not offended nor do I take it in a bad way. 

So, what do I want. I don't know was my answer at the time, but I guess what i want is to be loved. I mean, isn't that what we all want???  And of course, all the things that come along with that.

Love is elusive and I have come to believe that it doesn't come around that often or when you expect it to. So, I think you should be open to every possibility.

But then, I tend to obsess.